The Must And Mustn’t Of Wedding

by Andromeda D Miradji

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Do you ever think that we could prepare the wedding by ourselves before? When planning a wedding actually there are so many things that can be done by your self. Nevertheless, most of us have some doubt or unconfident feelings about “do’s and don’ts”, “must and must not do”.

It is absolutely right that for certain aspects about your big day should be handled by a professional. Why? It’s because a certain level of expertise must be need for some services. Catering, decorating, wedding dress, make over, etc. are some examples you might think that are easier than they really are. However, in some condition, you will not even save that much money by doing things yourselves.

Let’s see the list below about what you can do and don’t or must and mustn’t:

1. Do make your big day a joint venture between both bride’s family and groom’s family. Usually the grooms only need the info about what to wear, where and when to showing up. Some brides more dominance by issue order and make all decisions. Do make your decisions for main things together always – since you’ll be doing this for the rest of your lives and this is the best chance to start.

2. Do get all the things which can get done in advance done as far in early on as you could. Don’t ever catching in the

day before your wedding that you just realized that you have not gotten your marriage license yet or that your wedding gown isn’t ready.

3. Do let your wedding ceremony reflects and gives representation of both of you, who you are as individuals and who you are as a couple. This can be done by music, choirs, readings, vows and other personal stories with music selections background you make or choose.

4. Do please count into consideration of “family tensions” or “sore spots” especially when you arrange your seating. Particularly if parents have divorced and remarried but still have tension in each other’s presence. Be careful, when decide their seated at the ceremony, reception and dinner too.  It is very crucial as it could be caused unnecessary stress and also tears.

5. Do delegate, delegate and delegate. Let other’s help you then a week before the big day arrive you still could have time to relax

and indulge yourself by spa treated. The point to do this is to make you more beautiful, charm, great and to avoid you looks tired to enjoy your own wedding.

And now let take a look about the don’ts?

1. Don’t ever try to use your budget for education or buy a new house just to have a glamour wedding party. The most important thing is about the love between you and your partner. It is not about how much money you spend. It will be the meaningful and unforgettable ceremonies of the rest of your life without coming to an end of bankruptcy.

2. Don’t conceal your expression. This is your big day, express yourself freely. If you want to sing, let sing. If you want to dance then let dance. No need to shy just because your uncle is a good singer or your aunt is a good dancer. It doesn’t mean you have to let them sing or dance at the first place. Tell them that you love them very much and say you are appreciated for their wonderful attention by attending your wedding day.

3. Don’t delay the things you can do now or you can delegate it. If you don’t want a disaster the week before and the

day of the wedding, just organized it well. The earlier you are the less those “last minute” things to do, the more you will be able to feel and enjoy your own wedding day.

4. Don’t have over expectations about having everything done in perfect. Great? Yes. Perfect is something difficult. Keep your mind that this is a joyful party of love rather than a class examination. A little mistake is generally commons. Peoples will just skip it, so, don’t too much worry about it, otherwise it will see in your face. Of course you don’t want to miss your beauty aura and your charming face isn’t it? That’s they will always remember with fond memories for years to come.

5. Don’t ever touch drugs or drink alcoholic beverages prior to the ceremony. All must understand that the nerves are jangled and tension is high, but drugs and drink would put you at the worst situation. Get drank or even crave for is not the solution. Don’t forget to pray, ask your God to bless both of you and for your keenness… Amen.

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