By Andromeda D Miradji

Did you ever think that we can prepare our own marriage alone? When planning a wedding in fact there are so many things you can do by yourself. However, most of us have some doubts or are not feeling confident about the “do’s and don’ts,” “should and should not do”.

It is true that for certain aspects of your special day should be handled by a professional. Why? That’s because a certain level of expertise should the need for some services. Catering, decorations, wedding dresses even card invitations are some examples you may think that it’s easier than the truth.

Let’s look at the list below about what should and should not do:

1. Do not get on the day of your special event as there is a joint venture between the family of the bride and groom. Grooms usually just need info about what to wear, where and when to appear. There are couples who for some family-dominated decision-making problems. You should make the decision for the main things are always together – because you will do this for the rest of your life and this is the best opportunity to get started.

2. Prepare everything in stages since the distant days as you have time. Do not think that it can all be done in a day. Do not let happen the day before your wedding just realized that you do not invite the guest of honor or your wedding dress is not ready for instance.

3. Do not let your wedding ceremony reflect and give a representation of you both, but you as an individual and who you are as a couple. This can be done with music, choir, video clips, pre-wedding photos, or other personal stories with background music of your choice.

4. Be careful in determining the position of sitting at the reception, ceremony and dinner as well. Especially if the parents have divorced and remarried but still have tension in the presence of each other. There must be no unnecessary stress and tears.

5. Strive to delegate tasks, do all of yours, so do you still have time to take care of yourself. At least a week before the big day arrives you can still have time to relax and pamper yourself at the spa. The goal is to make you more beautiful, stunning on your wedding day.

6. Never attempt to use the funds or the budget for education or buying a house just to have a glamorous wedding. The important thing is about the love between you and your partner. This is not about how much money you spend. It would be more meaningful and memorable than the rest of your life, not the beginning of bankruptcy.

7. Do not hide your expression. This is your special day, so expression yourself freely. If you want to sing, let it sing. If you want to dance let dance. Don’t be ashamed just because your uncle is a good singer or your aunt is a good dancer. This does not mean you should let them sing or dance in the first place. Tell them you love them and appreciate their attention by attending your wedding day.

8. Do not have excessive expectations about having the perfect party. Big? Yes. Perfect is something that is difficult. Keep your mind that this is a fun and sacred feast, not a class. A small mistake is common. Society will just skip it, so do not worry too much about it, otherwise it will look on your face. Of course you do not want to miss the aura of beauty and charming face you is not it? That they will always remember with fond memories for years to come.
9. Never touched drugs or drink alcohol before the ceremony. Drugs and drink will put you in the worst situation. Do not forget to pray, asking God to bless you both and your will … Amen.

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Andromeda D Miradji is a writer for various lifestyle issues and topics including weddings.

By Emily Tanner, executive summarized by Andromeda

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One wedding seems to blend into another and looking for alternative ideas can be a struggle. Here are some great tips for making your favors as unique as you are!

Ensure your wedding favors are unique favors, encompassing everything you and your partner are about. Rather than going for traditional boxes or nets, why not design your own cookie favor? A personalized wedding favor is so much more memorable for the guests who attend your big day. Many brides are now purchasing personalized ribbon for wedding favors. This way, brides can choose from a wide selection of favor boxes and organza bags and turn them into a personalized wedding favor by adding personalized ribbon.

Most couples choose to have their names and wedding dates printed on personalized ribbon for boxes, although some brides do have the guests names also printed on ribbon – a great idea for a place setting too.

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Another way of providing guests with a personalized favor is by

attaching a tag. This personalized wedding favor tag may state the names of the bride and groom along with their wedding date or the wedding venue name or a short message from the happy couple to the guests.

A unique wedding favor such as this is well received by the guests and once the contents have been consumed, there is something left to have as a keepsake. In essence, all brides try to offer unique favors to their guests but there is nothing worse than receiving a gift similar to one you have previously received at a wedding. Bear this in mind when you are deciding which favors to offer your guests at your wedding because people do remember a unique favor or a personalized wedding favor more than one which is non specific and seemingly not very well thought out.

Of course, not all unique wedding favors are edible. There are many gifts that can be given to wedding guests that are inedible such as wedding favor coasters, photo album favors, picture frame wedding favors and candle wedding favors. These are just as easy to present as personalized wedding favors, again with the addition of personalized ribbon or a personalized tag. Your guests may well be equally impressed with your innovative and novel ideas as you provide them with a quality alternative to edible wedding favors.

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Instead of spending out on wedding favors, some brides choose to offer guests a piece of wedding cake beautifully presented in a personalized wedding favor box or a pretty organza bag. For brides who choose to give their guests some cake in a bag, they can attach a personalized wedding favor tag or tie the top with personalized ribbon. Either way, it is a lovely way of being a bit different and really offering your guests a unique wedding favor exclusive to you.

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By Andromeda

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If you plan a wedding party, one of the important things that you must determine is who will become the bridesmaids and groomsmen at your wedding reception. Do friends and family near you that will have you on the side of the wedding ceremony? Or is it simply that the family will accompany the bride?

There is no definitive rule to determine the number of people that you must have, depending on the type of marriage and how big a wedding reception that will be performed. This makes it easier for you in determining the number of bridesmaids and groomsmen.

If you have relatives and you are really close to them, they are usually included in the marriage. If you select the friends, you want to ensure that they are reliable and will have for you.
If you are having trouble choosing between two people that you may want to choose, the person who is close to where you live. Thus, if you need help they will be much easier to coordinate with them.

Traditional number of bridesmaids and groomsmen are three each. The reason is because this is the right number and even work well for wedding photos and the number of people who sat in the reception desk. Because you have three groomsmen who will provide two ushers and usher for a backup. Just keep in mind that the fewer people you accept to be involved in the preparation of your wedding party the more easily to coordinate. It is also easier when choosing bridesmaids dresses.

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If you have enough budgets you should buy gifts for them.
You can show your appreciation to your wedding reception by giving them a small thank you memorable gift. This must be different with wedding favor, because all the guests have. Options prize to you.
They pay the traditional bridesmaids dress but women’s clothing or at least choose the color and general style. Currently, it is only popular for brides to choose the color and let the bridesmaids choose their own clothes. The best man and groomsmen will be asked to dress as men, and they also pay according to their rent or Tux. It is easier and a good idea if you rent tuxedos for them that match, so that everyone will look the same. To ensure that men stand out from the groomsmen you may wish to have a binding or a different color.

This is a day and not has rules that must be placed in the marriage. You can choose who you want to stand beside you when you say your marriage vows. You can also include a flower girl or ring bearer to be a part of your wedding. This is depends on the type of your wedding and your preferences. This will be your special day that you will remember forever.

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By Mae Andrea, executive summarized by Andromeda

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It may not be compulsory to give your guests wedding favors, but many will expect them and they are the perfect way to say thank you to your guests for joining you on your special day. Not only that but wedding favors also add the perfect finishing touch to your tables so long as you coordinate them with your wedding style or theme.

Traditionally wedding favors would have been almonds or sugar cubes presented in a small box or tulle nets and although still a popular choice for traditional weddings, the favor industry now presents brides with a huge range of choices for their favors.

Your choice of wedding favor should reflect the style and/or theme of your wedding, as well as reflecting something of your own personality and taste. If you are busy looking for perfect wedding favors at the moment then here is a quick guide to the types of favor you will find.

• Edible Favors

Edible favors always delight. Generally they are sweet and confectionary based. These include almonds, chocolates, candies, mints, cookies and mini cakes or cupcakes. Other types of edible favor include bottles of hot sauce, jars of honey or preserve, maple syrup & drinks such as coffee, tea, liquor, hot chocolate and cocktails.

• Homemade Favors

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If you’re at home in the kitchen then why not make your own favors. Cookies are very popular and can be made in a variety of shapes to suit any wedding. Cupcakes are easy to bake and ice or why not make some peanut brittle, coconut ice or your own preserves?

• Thirst Quenching Favors

If your budget will stretches to it then why not give bottles of wine as wedding favors? You don’t have to go for full bottles, half bottles would be sufficient. Many stockists can also provide personalized labels too. If you really have a big budget then half bottles of champagne would be a luxurious favor. Even if you don’t have a very big budget these are well worth considering if you are having a small intimate wedding with only a select few guests.

• Entertaining Favors

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CD wedding favors have been popular for sometime. Burn your own CD’s with tracks that have some meaning to you or add your reception playlist. You can do this at home if your computer has CD/RW drive or ask a professional to do it for you. You can also present them in personalized CD cases or sleeves which you can design and print yourself at home.

Personalized Favors

There is a wide choice when it comes to personalized wedding favors as just about anything can be personalized these days. Firstly choose the personalization you want to add, usually it is your names and wedding date or your monogram and wedding date. You may want to have the actual favor personalized or just the packaging or elements of. Things such as ribbons, stickers and tags can all be personalized and provide the perfect finishing touches to your wedding favors.

Charitable Favors

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Giving the wedding favor budget to charity is becoming a hot trend. It works by giving a donation to your favorite charity or charities and then giving your guests a small card which says that you have given a donation to charity rather than a wedding favor. Many charities offer a wedding favor service which includes pre-printed cards to give to your guests. It is up to you whether or not you tell your guests the chosen charity and donation amount.

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