The “don’ts” in your wedding party
By Andromeda D Miradji
Did you ever think that we can prepare our own marriage alone? When planning a wedding in fact there are so many things you can do by yourself. However, most of us have some doubts or are not feeling confident about the “do’s and don’ts,” “should and should not do”.
It is true that for certain aspects of your special day should be handled by a professional. Why? That’s because a certain level of expertise should the need for some services. Catering, decorations, wedding dresses even card invitations are some examples you may think that it’s easier than the truth.
Let’s look at the list below about what should and should not do:
1. Do not get on the day of your special event as there is a joint venture between the family of the bride and groom. Grooms usually just need info about what to wear, where and when to appear. There are couples who for some family-dominated decision-making problems. You should make the decision for the main things are always together – because you will do this for the rest of your life and this is the best opportunity to get started.
2. Prepare everything in stages since the distant days as you have time. Do not think that it can all be done in a day. Do not let happen the day before your wedding just realized that you do not invite the guest of honor or your wedding dress is not ready for instance.
3. Do not let your wedding ceremony reflect and give a representation of you both, but you as an individual and who you are as a couple. This can be done with music, choir, video clips, pre-wedding photos, or other personal stories with background music of your choice.
4. Be careful in determining the position of sitting at the reception, ceremony and dinner as well. Especially if the parents have divorced and remarried but still have tension in the presence of each other. There must be no unnecessary stress and tears.
5. Strive to delegate tasks, do all of yours, so do you still have time to take care of yourself. At least a week before the big day arrives you can still have time to relax and pamper yourself at the spa. The goal is to make you more beautiful, stunning on your wedding day.
6. Never attempt to use the funds or the budget for education or buying a house just to have a glamorous wedding. The important thing is about the love between you and your partner. This is not about how much money you spend. It would be more meaningful and memorable than the rest of your life, not the beginning of bankruptcy.
7. Do not hide your expression. This is your special day, so expression yourself freely. If you want to sing, let it sing. If you want to dance let dance. Don’t be ashamed just because your uncle is a good singer or your aunt is a good dancer. This does not mean you should let them sing or dance in the first place. Tell them you love them and appreciate their attention by attending your wedding day.
8. Do not have excessive expectations about having the perfect party. Big? Yes. Perfect is something that is difficult. Keep your mind that this is a fun and sacred feast, not a class. A small mistake is common. Society will just skip it, so do not worry too much about it, otherwise it will look on your face. Of course you do not want to miss the aura of beauty and charming face you is not it? That they will always remember with fond memories for years to come.
9. Never touched drugs or drink alcohol before the ceremony. Drugs and drink will put you in the worst situation. Do not forget to pray, asking God to bless you both and your will … Amen.
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Andromeda D Miradji is a writer for various lifestyle issues and topics including weddings.